We started with two residents: the first, an elderly man in his 90’s who appears to be sleeping most of the time, began to smile faintly while hearing his favorite music, and when I later removed the headphone he said “more” and was able to tell me which songs he prefers. The second resident, a psychiatric patient with a very emotionless affect, was animated and his face lit up as he recognized the music of Beethoven, which he had specifically requested.
We’ve long touted the amazing success of the work done by Dan Cohen and Music and Memory, his ground-breaking program that brings personalized music via iPods to elderly individuals suffering from dementia, Alzheimer’s and other isolating conditions and living in nursing homes and other similar settings.
We think so much of this program that a few years ago we encouraged Zissie and Sandy Gitel, founders of our Israel-based grantee, In Their Shoes, to introduce M&M in that country. Last month when we met the Gitels in Israel they expressed some disappointment that the program was not catching on in Israeli nursing homes the way they would have liked. This morning’s email proves that much has happened since we met only four weeks ago. The above comments come from a nursing home in Tzfat that has been using the program for only two weeks but has already had success.
Certainly is music to our ears…
Good News Update
Firsts
Who can ever forget their first bike? Their first crush? That first teacher who inspired you to reach for the stars?
“Firsts” are somehow always indelibly etched in our memories, hopefully most often imbued with warmth and positivity.
Fraidy Reiss, founder of Unchained at Last, a grantee for the past few years, was featured in an article written by Samuel Freedman appearing in Saturday’s New York Times. From the day we first met Fraidy over two years ago, heard her story of escaping an arranged marriage and her wish to help other women whose cultures forced them into similar circumstances, we knew that this was an effort we wanted to help. Within a few days, Fraidy and Unchained received their first funding, a grant from the Good People Fund which started them on the road to success. Further funding to Unchained has continued and has also included direct help to some of Unchained’s clients who struggle with serious and often life-threatening situations.
So, it is with great pride that we share the Times’ article…
http://tinyurl.com/m965ton
We are proud of Fraidy and all of the brave women who choose to take this journey to freedom.
Staying Put
Carmela* has called Manhattan’s Morningside Heights her home for over a decade. Though certainly the “big city,” for many of the elders living in the neighborhood, in good part thanks to LiLY’s Morningside Village program, it is a community where many know each other and stop to chat with neighbors and shopkeepers. At age 91 and with very little English in her vocabulary, Carmela managed with the help of her sister with whom she resided.
That all changed recently, when the landlord tried to evict her after her sister’s death. Fortunately for Carmela, Lifeforce in Later Years-LiLY, one of the Good People Fund’s grantees, was able to come to the rescue. Thanks to our recent grant which allowed Irene Zola, LiLY’s dynamic founder, to hire a Spanish speaking social worker, Carmela was able to prove that she has indeed resided in the apartment for the past decade and all eviction proceedings ground to a halt. Carmela’s daughter says, “I didn’t know we still have people with big hearts. You are like family. I was tormented, and my mother was in tears. Now I am consoled. We can sleep better. God bless you and everyone from LiLY!”
*a pseudonym
Mazel Tov!
Who among us hasn’t teared up at a wedding when the ceremony ends and the groom breaks the serious mood by stomping down on a glass to a chorus of “Mazel Tov” from family and friends?
Though we could not be in attendance there were tears in our eyes as well this morning when Laurie Groner from our Israel program, Inbar, shared this picture and word of last night’s marriage of two Inbar clients (there were actually ten last year alone!). This young organization offers social events as well as courses in relationships and social integration to people with disabilities and its work is bolstered by the efforts of several matchmakers and other volunteers who work hard to promote Inbar’s goals.
As Laurie wrote, I wonder if it’s the first time the groom has broken the glass under the chuppah with crutches.
It may not have been the first time but we are so proud that the Good People Fund can be part of such special work.
Indeed It Is a Gift
Sometimes words cannot really do justice to the wondrous people and programs we discover and welcome to The Good People Fund family. Traveling through Israel over the past two weeks has opened our eyes to some of the most creative and moving tzedakah efforts we have ever seen.
Menachem Stolpner, a Brooklyn-born social worker who made aliyah about 18 years ago, has founded a beautiful organization called Shai Asher (Milton’s Gift) on Kibbutz Shluchot, not far from Beit Shean. In this pastoral setting, four young adults with developmental disabilities are engaged in meaningful employment under Menachem’s watchful eyes and patient demeanor. It is beautiful. Watch for yourself and see how this nascent program is changing lives, one by one. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hVoHKCsAfGo
You won’t be disappointed.
M’Sameach Katan v’Kallah (Rejoicing with the Bride and Groom)
Most of the time we find ourselves sharing stories tinged with sadness or despair. This morning, however, we heard about how a few people came together to make possible the mitzvah of m’sameach katan v’kallah or rejoicing with the bride and groom.
It all began yesterday when Gideon Ben Ami who spends his days helping Tel Aviv’s most forgotten and desperate residents, wrote about a young police officer, an immigrant who came to Israel with no family or friends, and was about to marry. Having very little money the prospective groom and his bride had planned a simple ceremony in Tel Aviv’s Great Synagogue with no real celebration to follow.
Here is where the kindness of others turned the simcha into something very special. Coincidentally, Gideon was a guest at another wedding a few days ago and afterward that bride asked him to deliver the leftover food to a nearby shelter. She also asked him to stop by to pick up the remaining candy and snacks. Gideon shared that the candy and snacks would be perfect for this new wedding he had just learned about and was hoping to make a bit more festive. Upon arriving to pick-up the candy he saw that the new bride and groom left not only the food but also an envelope with 1800 shekels and a note directing Gideon to use the money to help make the couple a proper celebration and to present them with anything that was leftover as a small gift.
Needless to say, with Gideon’s ingenuity and the generosity of many strangers, the young couple married today and enjoyed a reception replete with gorgeous flowers, fresh pastries of all kinds and this special wedding cake prepared by a local bakery. On top if it all, the couple received a cash gift of almost $250 which represented what was left of the original 1800 shekels.
Mitzvah Goreret Mitzvah-one mitzvah does lead to another!